
Steve and I arrived this morning and began donning the yellow gowns required by Skip's isolation due to the C. diff infection. As soon as we were fully robed the nurse entered and said the patient had tested negative for the infection for four days now and that we could discard the hot old gowns and gloves. Also planned, she explained, was a trip sometime today to a new room because they would scrub this one down completely to receive the next patient requiring isolation. The "lift team" came to clean Skip's bed and turn him to a more comfortable position. Just before we left the room, Skip turned his head to me and uttered
"Happy Anniversary." I have been so focussed and preoccupied with his condition that I had completely spaced the fact that today is indeed the 55th anniversary of our marriage. You could have knocked me over with a feather. Here I thought he was still a bit "out to lunch," and in fact, in some ways he still is, but.......... his inner calendar, memory and clock are obviously working just fine. Whew! We retired to the waiting room for a short stay during which Mike, Jenny and Leah arrived. When we returned to the room we found the patient comfortably sleeping. So we went down to the shaded courtyard to partake of a delicious chicken and vegetables lunch Jenny had prepared.
When we went back up to the room, guess what? We were directed to his new room, located across from the nurses' station. We walked in and much to our amazement, there sat Skip, upright in a wheelchair with Renie Oschin standing and talking to him. As far as we know, this was the first time he had sat upright without the help of the physical therapist's strong arms to support him. He looked rather startled himself so we asked him if he needed some help holding his head and shoulders up. He promptly accepted our offer and began to lean on us and relax ....... and look just a bit proud of himself.
His lunch soon arrived and we helped him with it, but more and more he took over the feeding and drinking process. As many of you know, Skip is not really a big eater, but he downed a whole fruit smoothie and some solids that may keep him from having to have the feeding tube reinserted. Let's hope so. Renie had retired to a seating area down the hall and she came back just as lunch was winding down and the dialysis nurse was setting up for the mid-afternoon session. The news now is that he will go without dialysis tomorrow and if it works, they'll begin to do it just once every other day. He shows some signs of producing urine on his own so keep up all your good thoughts, prayers and vibrations. We're sure it helps. And Jan and Jeff, we did apply a warm towel pack this morning to his kidney area and received all sorts of enthusiasm for trying it from the OT. Thanks for everything you've done and suggested.
As we were leaving, Skip received a phone call from an MLPA collegue. Steve conversed with her and explained that Dad couldn't speak very loudly or clearly yet but that perhaps in just a few days it would be better. I could see that Skip wanted to say hello to her so I turned the phone over to him. The dialysis nurse almost keeled over when she heard how fantastically he rose to the occasion and held quite a conversation. We were all again amazed!
The "hospitalist" (hospital floor doctor) came in and talked with Skip and then retired to the hall to speak with Steve and me. She is a bright, kind and thoughtful woman who first made it clear to us that Skip was safely out of the woods and we would soon be discussing a physical therapy venue and program along with whatever amount of dialysis he might still need.
THEN she minced no words in telling us that it is nothing short of a
MIRACLE that he survived this dreadful ordeal.
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